Mellie got it in with this scene in State of the Union. She told Fitz about himself and I believe it was justified.
*Reaches towards the plate for a piece of southern fried chicken. Thanks Mellz!*
Oh honey baby, do you actually think I give a damn what anyone thinks of me anymore? And for you to come here and pretend that this is all about me when let’s face it baby, this is all about you. This is the Fitzgerald Grant show starring Fitzgerald Grant and you just want me to play my part of the costar, the part of the dutiful wife that just smiles and doesn’t wear sweatpants or eat chicken and doesn’t hang out on graves. – Mellie